$5,700,000 net worth (Age 46)

$5,700,000 net worth (Age 46)

Perspective - A 46-year-old Sr. Director in tech (Bay Area-based, working remotely from Southern California) and his 44-year-old wife have three kids (11-year-old twins and a 9-year-old), and have seen their net worth grow from $4.2M to $5.7M in just three years. After a wildfire in Colorado uprooted their family, they relocated to SoCal, acquired a new primary home, and turned their old home into a rental. Their high $650K total income is split between salary, RSUs (company stock), and $100K from two rentals. Annual expenses rose from $80K to $140K intentionally to focus on experiences and travel with their children before the “window closes,” prioritizing memories over more saving. They still invest simply (low-cost index funds), but value time, presence, and family legacy more than chasing extra yield. Their goal: maintain principle, live off growth, and build strong relationships and adventures while the kids are young.
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“As we’ve aged, we’ve come to realize the value of time outweighs the desire to seek above-average returns... We understand that adulthood will come in the blink of an eye. If that means forgoing incremental savings, especially given we sacrificed early in life in order to build a financial foundation, this closing window of opportunity is something we are willing to apply more resources towards.”

 

TAKE-AWAY:
Compounding wealth is powerful but compounding memories and relationships, even more so. After a major disruption, this family made a conscious pivot: spend intentionally (even a lot more) on experiences that matter now, maintain simple habits on the investing side, and cherish the rare window for togetherness.

 

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